Family for me means there will be beside me no matter what happens the most loved ones.the outer world loves me when I am strong and effective and dislikes me when I am weak and ineffective. family are the people that stay beside me even in the toughest of times, the worst of the worst times, even whenever sometimes is very wrong with me.actually some good friends also come as their family according to this description.
Night parents had strong confidence in me from childhood, although I disappointed them many times such as not being able to bring the results they wanted not working as hard as I should or line about working when I was not. but at the end of the day when I went back to them and confessed I failed they always give me shelter and hope and showed me how to move forward.
When I grew up in conservative Muslim family which is may be why I am such a shy person now. but because of it we had a strong process of differentiating right and wrong and I also think my family taught me this well.
And another big influence came from the fact that I was never force you to do anything. they were supportive also in my studies. I was given many choices and especially in terms of selecting career options and choosing what to do and how to do it, my family has always given me autonomy. sometimes if I woke up late or was not able to study, I would get very angry at myself. but my father just told me, don’t waste time now weeping for it under study right now in the time you have and I am very grateful for this unconditional support even up until now.